Style is not about fashion, as once famously said by Coco Chanel "fashion fades, style is eternal. Your style will not change form season to season. It is something that is unique to each person, it is something that says something about that person And who they are. When looking for your style you should think carefully about your personality, what you look and feel good in.
The real key to finding your own style is finding clothes and accessories that make you look and feel great. If you feel great you will exhibit a confidence that says you are extremely stylish. A truly stylish person dresses for themselves, they know who they are and are happy with it.
In your quest to find your own style, you should search high and low to find clothes and accessories that really say something about who you are. Look for clothes that really suit your body shape and coloring then accessorise to suit your personality but remember not too play it too safe. Try lots of different options and combinations, have fun and see what you like best. If you have always played safe with your clothing and never allowed your real personality to show through then start small, sometimes some different jewelery that shows your love of the unusual or a fun handbag that shows your sense of humor.
When it comes to style, the rules are that there are no rules. You should wear what ever suits you and makes you feel great. There is no need to follow the latest trends however you can always pick and choose items from them that suit your style if you like. Style is not about how much money you spend on clothes. Some of the most stylish people you see around will not be wearing expensive designer clothes and some of those wearing expensive designer clothes do not look at all stylish. When trying to find your own style, always opt for clothes that fit beautifully as these are the clothes that will look beautiful and very stylish no matter what your style is.
Miuccia Prada was right when she said "What you wear is how you present yourself to the world, especially today, when human contacts are so quick. Fashion is an instant language." So find the style that really represents how you want the world to see you be Yummy Mummy, business woman or artist bohemian.