Clothing and Self Esteem
Clothing has very different impact on our self esteem. The higher is self-esteem the less clothing affects it, but the opposite is also true – the lower is self-esteem the more power cloths and fashion have over a person.
I am not saying that people with high self-esteem do not care about what they are wearing. I am just saying that people with high self-esteem know that they are still the best no matter what they wear. People with high self-esteem choose the clothes they really like and that emphasize their personality, not those that other people want them to wear. People with high self-esteem create fashion, others follow it.
Be confident. If you choose to wear something, wear it because you like it and you feel comfortable in it. You can be a role model everyone will follow, no matter where you live, what you do, and who you are. Do not be afraid to express yourself and people will follow you because you are one of a kind.
What matters most is the way you behave. If you are developing you inner self constantly and persistently, if you try to become a greater, more interesting, kind, balanced, and confident person, people will love you in any clothes.
If your inner world is beautiful then your outer world will be too. If you are developing excellence it is going to show in every part of your life. You are going to wear all those clothes you desire, but you will not be a prisoner of the fashion.
You can not change the outer world first. No matter how expensive your clothes are, if you are unconfident inside, it is going to show.
Do not make mistake on becoming addictive to cloths advertised by media. Become addicted in exploring and enjoying yourself. You can feel comfortable any time you want in any clothes you have if you decide to.